{"id":15332,"date":"2023-07-06T08:10:38","date_gmt":"2023-07-06T08:10:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.dumitra.net\/blog\/?p=15332"},"modified":"2023-07-06T08:11:43","modified_gmt":"2023-07-06T08:11:43","slug":"es-mal-pas-pas-mal-du-tout-bien-au-contraire","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.dumitra.net\/blog\/?p=15332","title":{"rendered":"\u201dEs Mal Pas\u201d pas mal du tout… ba dimpotriv\u0103"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Sim\u021bi\u021bi, nu-i a\u0219a? Miroase a lavand\u0103 aici, lavand\u0103 \u00een esen\u021ba ei: lini\u0219te f\u0103r\u0103 sedare. O respira\u021bie lila. A suflet vindecat, a dragoste de d\u0103ruit \u0219i primit \u0219i a \u00eemp\u0103care – cu ei, cu tine – din care au r\u0103s\u0103rit c\u00e2mpuri de lavand\u0103. Iat\u0103, o rochie cu spatele gol, nisipul c\u0103ldu\u021b din l\u0103satul serilor \u00een care m\u00e2inile s-au \u00eempletit \u00eentr-o expira\u021bie oceanic\u0103, acela\u0219i nisip \u00een care silueta lung\u0103, de sportiv\u0103, \u0219i-a f\u0103cut culcu\u0219 sau chiar a devenit ea \u00eens\u0103\u0219i fire de nisip, pielea ar\u0103mie <\/a>din care soarele nu s-a stins, e dus \u00een dormitor \u0219i oplo\u0219it, de aceea e aproape un sacrilegiu ca noaptea, pielea care a cunoscut atingerea lui, s\u0103 o \u021bii ascuns\u0103 \u00een vreo \u021bes\u0103tur\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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O portocal\u0103 proasp\u0103t culeas\u0103 din gr\u0103din\u0103 a poposit \u00een dou\u0103 jum\u0103t\u0103\u021bi solare la micul dejun. El trebuie s\u0103 soseasc\u0103\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201dAici iubirea e liber\u0103, f\u0103r\u0103 confuzii, f\u0103r\u0103 team\u0103, f\u0103r\u0103 ra\u021biune. Am g\u0103sit-o \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103tor \u0219i n-am avut cui s\u0103 o dezv\u0103lui, a\u0219a c\u0103 a r\u0103mas secret\u0103 p\u00e2n\u0103 acum.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Po\u021bi iubi la orice v\u00e2rst\u0103, tot at\u00e2t c\u00e2t \u0219i po\u021bi suferi la orice v\u00e2rst\u0103. Cele dou\u0103 n-au limite, de\u0219i se confund\u0103 nedrept uneori.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Putem cre\u0219te mul\u021bi ani \u00een noi c\u00e2mpuri unde avem temerea r\u0103nit\u0103 c\u0103 nu va mai r\u0103s\u0103ri dec\u00e2t nostalgie, dec\u00e2t umbra pierderii celor pe care i-ai \u021binut str\u00e2ns de m\u00e2n\u0103. \u0218i, cu toate astea, ei s-au desprins. Uneori, subit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar, uite, vine un moment ca \u0103sta, cobor\u00e2t, nu se \u0219tie de unde, ca o raz\u0103 de lumin\u0103 \u2013 asta dac\u0103 ai suficient\u0103 r\u0103bdare \u2013 c\u00e2nd consta\u021bi c\u0103 : \u201dNu e nicio diferen\u021b\u0103 \u00eentre vise \u0219i amintiri, \u00eentre fantezie \u0219i realitate, c\u0103 iubirea este nesf\u00e2r\u0219it\u0103, c\u0103 nu trebuie s\u0103 ascund nimic, nici sentimentele, nici defectele, nici dorin\u021bele, nici firele albe de p\u0103r, nici \u00eembr\u0103\u021bi\u0219\u0103rile \u0219i nici cutele ascunse ale inimii\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cartea lui Iren Mate este adiere subtil\u0103 \u0219i suav\u0103, \u0219i duioas\u0103, care-\u021bi p\u0103trunde pe sub c\u0103ma\u0219a min\u021bii. E un frison pl\u0103cut. Uneori, valurile se st\u00e2rnesc aici, dar apoi se domolesc. Plute\u0219ti rotund, bl\u00e2nd, ca \u00eentr-un balon cu aer cald. Observi peisajul, respiri, tr\u0103ie\u0219ti. Pur \u0219i simplu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Feti\u021ba de atunci \u2013 adus\u0103 \u00een carte \u00eentr-un trup zvelt, longilin, imponderabil c\u00e2teodat\u0103, de femeie care \u0219i-a continuat drumul, chiar \u0219i c\u00e2nd acesta arat\u0103 sens interzis sau blocat – e sus\u021binut\u0103 ca o plas\u0103 de siguran\u021b\u0103 de figurile feminine ale familiei, str\u0103bunica, bunica, mama.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Acum s-au mutat \u2013 \u0219i nu e chip s\u0103 mai plece vreodat\u0103 – \u00een ramele fotografiilor de pe comod\u0103, iar feti\u021ba aceea \u00eenc\u0103 poart\u0103 harta drumurilor din satul natal, unde apa f\u00e2nt\u00e2nii s\u0103se\u0219ti \u2013 apa vie de la via\u021b\u0103 vine – p\u0103streaz\u0103 oglind\u0103 imaginea copilei \u00een rochi\u021b\u0103 gri.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201dEs Mal Pas\u201d nu e doar un col\u021b de Spanie autentic\u0103, cu m\u0103slini \u0219i migdali, \u0219i portocali. E chiar mai mult dec\u00e2t at\u00e2t: e canapeaua de psihoterapie de pe care te ridici cu bra\u021bele pline de lavand\u0103. Gata s\u0103 le d\u0103ruie\u0219ti oricui \u00ee\u021bi iese \u00een cale. \u0218i asta \u00ee\u021bi d\u0103 o lini\u0219te f\u0103r\u0103 sedare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201dSunt c\u0103l\u0103torii care te \u00eendeamn\u0103, sub frunzi\u0219ul m\u0103slinilor, la \u00eemp\u0103care, la \u00een\u021belepciune, la iertare, la bun\u0103tate, la deta\u0219are. Sunt alte drumuri atr\u0103g\u0103toare, ca o vraj\u0103, care promit fericiri depline, mic dejun plutitor, croaziere \u00een lagune albastre. \u0218tiu asta din Costa Rica.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pune\u021bi-v\u0103 neap\u0103rat cartea asta \u00een buzunarul de plaj\u0103. E o bl\u00e2nd\u0103 \u0219i suav\u0103 #cartedevacanta<\/a> , nominalizat\u0103 la Premiile Uniunii Scriitorilor (2019).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Iren Mate este co-fondatoarea editurii Curtea Veche. Anual, prin Asocia\u021bia Curtea Veche merge prin satele \u0219i ora\u0219ele Rom\u00e2niei f\u0103c\u00e2nd dona\u021bii de carte copiilor \u0219i \u00eencuraj\u00e2ndu-i s\u0103 citeasc\u0103 prin ateliere \u0219i activit\u0103\u021bi creative.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201dCineva mi-a oferit o carte, Dale Carnegie, How to Win Friends and Influence People. Nu \u0219tiu exact ce am \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat din aceast\u0103 carte, dar mi-au revenit dorin\u021ba de via\u021b\u0103 \u0219i, mai ales, voin\u021ba de a vorbi despre ea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sim\u021beam c\u0103 to\u021bi au nevoie de cartea asta, ca s\u0103 fim mai buni, s\u0103 ne \u00een\u021belegem mai bine, s\u0103 ajungem mai toleran\u021bi cu noi \u00een\u0219ine \u0219i cu ceilal\u021bi. Am ie\u0219it din izolare \u0219i liniile frumoase, bine conturate ale drumului meu mi-au reap\u0103rut pe harta interioar\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ambi\u021bia, puterea de a munci bine se pot pierde \u00een via\u021ba de zi cu zi. N-a fost cazul atunci. Dorin\u021ba de a-mi face datoria, de a m\u0103 d\u0103rui m-au dus mai departe.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

P\u00e2n\u0103 la Cr\u0103ciun, mi-am reluat mersul \u0219i via\u021ba. Peste un an, \u00een urm\u0103torul Cr\u0103ciun pornea editura cu traducerea lui Carnegie. Po\u021bi face o editur\u0103 cu o carte, cu un singur autor\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Anul acesta, editura \u00eempline\u0219te 25 de ani.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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