{"id":14267,"date":"2023-01-30T10:23:32","date_gmt":"2023-01-30T10:23:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.dumitra.net\/blog\/?p=14267"},"modified":"2023-01-30T10:23:34","modified_gmt":"2023-01-30T10:23:34","slug":"dis-merci-a-la-dame","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.dumitra.net\/blog\/?p=14267","title":{"rendered":"Dis merci \u00e0 la dame!"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Coinciden\u021b\u0103. Citeam ieri pe blogul lui Christophe Andr\u00e9 (ale c\u0103rui c\u0103r\u021bi sunt editate de Trei) un articol care zice \u00ab Dis merci \u00e0 la dame\u2026 \u00bb (Spune mul\u021bumesc doamnei), despre cum a mul\u021bumi (care poate p\u0103rea o practic\u0103 superficial\u0103; dar superficialul este profunzimea care iese la suprafa\u021b\u0103, conform lui Cocteau) face parte, \u00een primul r\u00e2nd, din logica rudimentar\u0103 a darului \u0219i contra-darului, descris\u0103 astfel: dac\u0103 cineva \u00eemi ofer\u0103 ceva, \u00eei d\u0103ruiesc \u00een schimb altceva, un obiect, un simbol, un cuv\u00e2nt. Acest cuv\u00e2nt este \u201dMul\u021bumesc\u201d, esen\u021bial pentru ca mecanismul nostru social s\u0103 func\u021bioneze.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cen plus, a mul\u021bumi ne reaminte\u0219te c\u00e2t de dependen\u021bi suntem unii de al\u021bii dintotdeauna, pentru c\u0103:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>1. nu putem realiza nimic grandios \u0219i durabil de unii singuri;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>2. cu to\u021bii avem zeci de mul\u021bumiri de adresat de-a lungul vie\u021bii;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>3. d\u00e2nd glas mul\u021bumirilor pe care le dator\u0103m, ar fi bine s\u0103 tr\u0103im momentele astea ca pe o oportunitate, \u0219ans\u0103, mai degrab\u0103, dec\u00e2t ca pe o constr\u00e2ngere sau dependen\u021b\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0218i, chiar dac\u0103 existen\u021ba noastr\u0103 este uneori complicat\u0103 \u0219i dureroas\u0103, are totu\u0219i momente de fericire \u0219i bucurie, ca cel pe care l-am avut de diminea\u021b\u0103 (\u0219i acum vine \u0219i coinciden\u021ba) descoperind, pe pagina mea nesportiv\u0103, o amintire de acum 11 ani, c\u00e2nd anun\u021bam prietenii, fo\u0219tii colegi \u0219i colaboratori, c\u0103 \u201dAm un blog: <a href=\"https:\/\/l.facebook.com\/l.php?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.dumitra.net%2F%3Ffbclid%3DIwAR2p_PT_8vKYIATc4gXyNOZISGiK2_Ad5J5s_nnxtYvjw3z2snsYVXGarzY&amp;h=AT14i1G62xSvgpmJ5avyKQAxvTF6nVN33kr_x0kM_F-ZIqdbG4BC11muUSVW1QJfN4zamX0566qEdN8z7rrMtcAjb8y6fS-dmV067jl-gOSvnVcwgluuftNUr7Xm6FTZeBk2PIaYkrax77IVzxs6&amp;__tn__=-UK-R&amp;c[0]=AT1ZJwwIp2vRkWd4kVvOdT0tL_X9DAvLVTknanR6wHbEMQuJIzAYoJTzUkBQYsrT3RTfV--LiYjq-_AmBFXLw-r5iau_AAMFoKtLamyPZXgmnxuBCqkv1GCERSaGvCQ4pVrQ14boy4CtgO_f6fMT0XgX1FXMjUkGX5diwp4I2TOvGe8IftZyr2GOaCpH103q5GTrxFHyl2s\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">www.dumitra.net<\/a> Scriu despre ce inseamna sa fac sport, despre cat de grasa am fost si am slabit, despre carti, caci despre politica scrie toata lumea. Iti multumesc ca ma vei citi si te asigur ca a face sport nu inseamna neaparat a merge la sala!\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Asta scriam fix 11 ani \u00een urm\u0103.Apoi am citit cele \u0219ase comentarii la postarea asta ale celor care m-au \u00eencurajat atunci, scriindu-mi c\u00e2teva vorbe. M-au ajutat enorm. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Lor, anume, vreau s\u0103 le mul\u021bumesc acum. Mul\u021bumesc, Monica I.! Mul\u021bumesc, Irinel C.M.! Mul\u021bumesc, Dana E.! Mul\u021bumesc, Irina L.! Mul\u021bumesc, Tudor \u0218.!Dar mul\u021bumesc \u0219i vou\u0103, cum \u0219i voi a\u021bi f\u0103cut-o deseori! Tare bine mi-a prins.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Primele mele poze de pe blog, 25 ianuarie 2012<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/scontent.fcra2-1.fna.fbcdn.net\/v\/t39.30808-6\/327454166_434320128839778_7353142383273958657_n.jpg?_nc_cat=107&amp;ccb=1-7&amp;_nc_sid=730e14&amp;_nc_eui2=AeEDeC3HHZeI40MJp22T_odbOsK3uf-EufE6wre5_4S58aRqdnxw7LlNqEwTNHIepmBabyq-Y0kc3oYizwTRDTYD&amp;_nc_ohc=iX6Eal-YnYgAX_sSxLN&amp;_nc_ht=scontent.fcra2-1.fna&amp;oh=00_AfCAcHTPH_B5BnRJ12iX8LeI-W8kL0ob-69GcNC4Nr2yQw&amp;oe=63DC32D2\" alt=\"Ar putea fi o imagine cu 1 persoan\u0103\" width=\"234\" height=\"273\"\/><figcaption><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/scontent.fcra2-1.fna.fbcdn.net\/v\/t39.30808-6\/327453170_569975878333076_901239375307423936_n.jpg?_nc_cat=108&amp;ccb=1-7&amp;_nc_sid=730e14&amp;_nc_eui2=AeEFbxTl08c57QGdr9yC2Gs9beWZZ9UeyMlt5Zln1R7IyVAsPl2T1QA1RpFvwuz5uxkgHU_nSPRDKFu7eYLcHoht&amp;_nc_ohc=QYAuTsoufaUAX8svaIe&amp;_nc_oc=AQk0dIdTpguaPsfaIDQc40CUSLg0PpKYO0oTAQ56NJ_-YS_5dYfEKQ_kCndO55G00YJI1a33anT_ycPwrWRlDIcW&amp;_nc_ht=scontent.fcra2-1.fna&amp;oh=00_AfCzI5JpvhpylnCTZfosOVyneAkBmner8CyRwP7ts3JfLA&amp;oe=63DBA9F7\" alt=\"Ar putea fi o imagine cu 1 persoan\u0103 \u015fi minge\"><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Coinciden\u021b\u0103. Citeam ieri pe blogul lui Christophe Andr\u00e9 (ale c\u0103rui c\u0103r\u021bi sunt editate de Trei) un articol care zice \u00ab Dis merci \u00e0 la dame\u2026 \u00bb (Spune mul\u021bumesc doamnei), despre cum a mul\u021bumi (care&#46;&#46;&#46;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"ngg_post_thumbnail":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[2255,2256],"class_list":["post-14267","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-personal","tag-10-ani-de-blog","tag-10-ani-de-blog-dumitra-net"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dumitra.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14267","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dumitra.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dumitra.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dumitra.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dumitra.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=14267"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.dumitra.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14267\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":14269,"href":"https:\/\/www.dumitra.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14267\/revisions\/14269"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dumitra.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=14267"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dumitra.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=14267"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dumitra.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=14267"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}