{"id":13988,"date":"2022-10-12T07:43:07","date_gmt":"2022-10-12T07:43:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.dumitra.net\/blog\/?p=13988"},"modified":"2022-10-12T07:43:23","modified_gmt":"2022-10-12T07:43:23","slug":"emotii-nu-fapte-si-nici-macar-frumusete","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.dumitra.net\/blog\/?p=13988","title":{"rendered":"Emo\u021bii, nu fapte, \u0219i nici m\u0103car frumuse\u021be!"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Asculta\u021bi: e cea mai bun\u0103 carte de psihologie aplicat\u0103, o biblie a min\u021bilor noastre prezente. E c\u0103s\u0103torit cu ea de \u0219ase ani \u0219i au doi copii. Pare femeia perfect\u0103. El \u0219tie asta \u0219i totu\u0219i se preg\u0103te\u0219te s\u0103 o p\u0103r\u0103seasc\u0103. Diminea\u021b\u0103, c\u00e2nd ea \u0219i copiii se vor trezi, el nu va mai fi acolo. O s\u0103 le lase un bilet, poate. Nu l-au atras nici spiritul, nici frumuse\u021bea ei, ci dexteritatea cu care reu\u0219e\u0219te s\u0103 fac\u0103 fa\u021b\u0103 unei situa\u021bii dezagreabile. O s\u0103 doarm\u0103 la Victor pe podea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ea e de\u0219teapt\u0103 \u0219i educat\u0103 \u0219i \u00eei place s\u0103-i mul\u021bumeasc\u0103 pe ceilal\u021bi. Iar el o p\u0103r\u0103se\u0219te. Poftim! Acum se g\u00e2nde\u0219te la ce s\u0103-\u0219i pun\u0103 \u00een valiz\u0103 \u0219i la nimic altceva. Va str\u00e2nge \u00een fiecare diminea\u021b\u0103 salteaua \u0219i o va pune \u00een debaraua lui Victor.Susan e rece cu el, dar el, scenarist de succes, de o nep\u0103sare schopenhaurian\u0103, o mai are \u0219i pe Nina. Mai bine spus, o avea. Acum se hr\u0103ne\u0219te din feliile uscate ale pove\u0219tii cu Nina (\u0219i cu altele). Simte c\u0103 e liber c\u00e2nd o \u00eencurajeaz\u0103 pe Nina s\u0103 vad\u0103 \u0219i al\u021bi b\u0103rba\u021bi. Iar el tr\u0103ie\u0219te \u201dc\u0103s\u0103toria ca o b\u0103t\u0103lie, o excursie teribil\u0103, un anotimp \u00een infern \u0219i o ra\u021biune de a fi. Trebuie s\u0103 fii \u00eenzestrat \u00een toate domeniile, nu doar \u00een cel sexual\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dar dac\u0103 toate pove\u0219tile lui de amor se sf\u00e2r\u0219esc a\u0219a, ce rost are s\u0103 o mai p\u0103r\u0103seasc\u0103 pe Susan? I se cere s\u0103 fac\u0103 un efort, dar n-are chef de niciunul. Insist\u0103 s\u0103 se conving\u0103 c\u0103 n-o mai iube\u0219te \u0219i c\u0103 \u0103sta este e\u0219ecul lui \u0219i basta. Acum vrea doar valiza, foile \u0219i pixurile cu care s\u0103-\u0219i noteze toate emo\u021biile legate de plecarea asta. S\u0103 \u0219i le noteze ca un detectiv, s\u0103 nu-i scape niciuna.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0218i le va relata cu o sinceritate absolut\u0103, t\u0103ioas\u0103, afurisit\u0103, aproape orbitoare. \u201dCum \u00eemi place s\u0103 scriu? Cu un creion moale \u0219i un ***** tare &#8211; \u0219i nu invers\u201dCea mai frumoas\u0103 dintre cele patru povestiri ale lui Kureishi &#8211; scriitor britanic inclus de The Times \u00een lista celor mai mari 50 de scriitori britanici de dup\u0103 1945 &#8211; este \u201dIntimitate\u201d. Cartea st\u0103 la baza filmului cu acela\u0219i nume, \u00een regia lui Patrice Chereau.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dup\u0103 mine, cea mai bun\u0103 bun\u0103 povestire citit\u0103 de la Clarice Lispector \u00eencoace. E harta \u00een m\u0103rime natural\u0103 a nelini\u0219tii sexualit\u0103\u021bii masculine, diagrama min\u021bii unui b\u0103rbat, decupat\u0103 cu at\u00e2ta precizie \u0219i \u00een toate nuan\u021bele, \u00eenc\u00e2t ri\u0219ti \u0219i tu, cititor binevoitor, s\u0103 s\u00e2ngerezi exact acolo unde crezi c\u0103 nimic nu te poate atinge. O carte bun\u0103 mai ales pentru b\u0103rba\u021bi, dac\u0103 o citesc \u0219i femeile.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Place \u00e0 la parole de Hanif Kureishi:\u201dSusan voia s\u0103-l trimit\u0103 pe cel mic \u201ds\u0103 vad\u0103 pe cineva\u201d. I-am spus c\u0103, atunci c\u00e2nd \u00eennebunesc p\u0103rin\u021bii, \u00ee\u0219i trimit copiii la psihiatri.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201d\u0218tiu c\u0103 dragostea e o treab\u0103 \u00eemb\u00e2csit\u0103; trebuie s\u0103 te murd\u0103re\u0219ti pe m\u00e2ini. (&#8230;..) F\u0103r\u0103 dragoste, cea mai mare parte din via\u021b\u0103 r\u0103m\u00e2ne ascuns\u0103.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201dLumea nu vrea s\u0103 ai parte de mult\u0103 pl\u0103cere; crede c\u0103 nu-\u021bi face bine. Ai putea \u00eencepe s\u0103 \u021bi-o dore\u0219ti tot timpul. C\u00e2t de nepotolit\u0103 e dorin\u021ba! Diavolul \u0103sta nu doarme \u0219i nu st\u0103 nemi\u0219cat niciodat\u0103. Dorin\u021ba e neast\u00e2mp\u0103rat\u0103 \u0219i nu corespunde idealurilor noastre, de aceea avem at\u00e2ta nevoie de ele (&#8230;..) \u0218i chiar c\u00e2nd credem c\u0103 \u021binem dorin\u021ba sub control, ea ne dezam\u0103ge\u0219te \u0219i ne umple de speran\u021b\u0103. Dorin\u021ba m\u0103 face s\u0103 r\u00e2d pentru c\u0103-\u0219i bate joc de noi to\u021bi. Totu\u0219i, mai bine a\u0219a dec\u00e2t s\u0103 fii fascist.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201dCum ne inund\u0103 trecutul cu totul. Tr\u0103im toate zilele vie\u021bii \u00een acela\u0219i timp.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201dOamenii despre care pot spune c\u0103 tr\u0103iesc cu talent sunt cei care au vie\u021bi libere, concep\u00e2nd planuri m\u0103re\u021be \u0219i v\u0103z\u00e2ndu-le \u00eendeplinite. Ei sunt, de asemenea, cea mai bun\u0103 companie.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201dDac\u0103 Marx fusese p\u0103rintele nostru, ideologul primei jum\u0103t\u0103\u021bi a secolului trecut, Freud a fost noul nostru tat\u0103, \u00een vreme ce ne-am \u00eentors spre interior. Cu siguran\u021b\u0103, lumea \u00een care ne negociem zilele la munc\u0103, \u00een dragoste, \u00een hobby-uri, \u00een sport &#8211; este una a altor oameni, descri\u0219i, \u00een zilele noastre, \u00een limbajul derivat din analiz\u0103. Majoritatea prietenilor mei \u00ee\u0219i petrec cea mai mare parte a timpului pe spate, dormind, f\u0103c\u00e2nd amor ori terapie \u0219i vorbind despre \u201drela\u021biile\u201d lor la telefon.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Magistral\u0103 povestirea asta. Simpatice \u00eens\u0103 \u0219i celelalte din cartea asta care, pe undeva, tot te submineaz\u0103, de piatr\u0103 de-ai fi. De citit cu creionul \u00een m\u00e2n\u0103. Tare sau moale. Cum v\u0103 e pohta&#8230;. \u0218i dorin\u021ba.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.dumitra.net\/blog\/wp-content\/fileStore\/2022\/10\/20221005_141751-01-733x1024.jpeg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-13990\" width=\"529\" height=\"739\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.dumitra.net\/blog\/wp-content\/fileStore\/2022\/10\/20221005_141751-01-733x1024.jpeg 733w, https:\/\/www.dumitra.net\/blog\/wp-content\/fileStore\/2022\/10\/20221005_141751-01-215x300.jpeg 215w, https:\/\/www.dumitra.net\/blog\/wp-content\/fileStore\/2022\/10\/20221005_141751-01-768x1073.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/www.dumitra.net\/blog\/wp-content\/fileStore\/2022\/10\/20221005_141751-01-600x838.jpeg 600w, https:\/\/www.dumitra.net\/blog\/wp-content\/fileStore\/2022\/10\/20221005_141751-01-1100x1536.jpeg 1100w, https:\/\/www.dumitra.net\/blog\/wp-content\/fileStore\/2022\/10\/20221005_141751-01-1466x2048.jpeg 1466w, https:\/\/www.dumitra.net\/blog\/wp-content\/fileStore\/2022\/10\/20221005_141751-01-1320x1844.jpeg 1320w, https:\/\/www.dumitra.net\/blog\/wp-content\/fileStore\/2022\/10\/20221005_141751-01-scaled.jpeg 1833w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 529px) 100vw, 529px\" \/><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Asculta\u021bi: e cea mai bun\u0103 carte de psihologie aplicat\u0103, o biblie a min\u021bilor noastre prezente. E c\u0103s\u0103torit cu ea de \u0219ase ani \u0219i au doi copii. Pare femeia perfect\u0103. El \u0219tie asta \u0219i totu\u0219i&#46;&#46;&#46;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"ngg_post_thumbnail":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1413],"tags":[2213,2210,2211,2212],"class_list":["post-13988","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-raftul-lui-radu","tag-editura-humanitas-hanif-kureishi-intimitate","tag-hanif-kureishi","tag-intimitate-si-alte-povestiri","tag-recenzie-intimitate-si-alte-povestiri"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dumitra.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13988","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dumitra.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dumitra.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dumitra.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dumitra.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=13988"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/www.dumitra.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13988\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":13995,"href":"https:\/\/www.dumitra.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13988\/revisions\/13995"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dumitra.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=13988"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dumitra.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=13988"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dumitra.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=13988"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}