{"id":13795,"date":"2022-07-05T07:44:23","date_gmt":"2022-07-05T07:44:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.dumitra.net\/blog\/?p=13795"},"modified":"2022-07-05T07:58:21","modified_gmt":"2022-07-05T07:58:21","slug":"ce-nu-te-stiveste-da-dependenta-si-mai-cum","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.dumitra.net\/blog\/?p=13795","title":{"rendered":"Ce nu te strive\u0219te d\u0103 dependen\u021b\u0103&#8230; \u0219i mai cum?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Ies t\u00e2rziu \u00een noapte \u0219i groggy din ring. N-a sl\u0103bit o clip\u0103 ritmul. I-am c\u0103utat \u0219i cele mai mici bre\u0219e. S\u0103 respir m\u0103car \u00eentre ele. S\u0103-mi v\u0103d de via\u021ba mea \u00eentre timp. Cu c\u00e2t le c\u0103utam, cu at\u00e2t m\u0103 izbea mai tare. E de ajuns s\u0103 iube\u0219ti ca cel\u0103lalt s\u0103 se schimbe de dragul dragostei tale? E de ajuns s\u0103 te sacrifici pentru cel\u0103lalt ca el s\u0103 devin\u0103 alt om, un om nou? E de ajuns?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p> Nu, poate c\u0103 nu e de ajuns. E chiar prea mult. Cu c\u00e2t iube\u0219ti mai mult, cu at\u00e2t suferi mai mult. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>E o lege imuabil\u0103 \u0219i se aplic\u0103, pare-se, nu doar rela\u021biilor de cuplu, ci \u0219i rela\u021biei mam\u0103-fiu. C\u00e2nd dansul dependen\u021bei te suge \u00een v\u00e2rtejul lui, s-ar putea s\u0103 nu-l salvezi nici pe el, nici pe tine. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Po\u021bi fugi? \u0218i dac\u0103 da, \u00ee\u021bi po\u021bi ierta c\u0103 ai fugit? Dar dac\u0103 r\u0103m\u00e2i? Ce devii tu, cine devine cel\u0103lalt?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Shuggie Bain &#8211; un b\u0103ie\u021bel efeminat \u0219i agresat permanent de colegi \u0219i adul\u021bi pentru c\u0103 \u201dnu e normal\u201d ca ceilal\u021bi &#8211; cre\u0219te \u00eentr-un cap\u0103t de Glasgow atins crunt de efectele politicii lui Margaret Thatcher din anii 1980: \u0219omaj, s\u0103r\u0103cie, dependen\u021b\u0103 de alcool, droguri. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>O mam\u0103 alcoolic\u0103, de o frumuse\u021be care aduce cu Elizabeth Taylor, un frate \u0219i o sor\u0103 proveni\u021bi dintr-o c\u0103s\u0103torie anterioar\u0103, un tat\u0103 care-i abandoneaz\u0103 \u00eentr-un cartier s\u0103rac de case de mineri aflat l\u00e2ng\u0103 o min\u0103 p\u0103r\u0103sit\u0103 &#8211; e peisajul \u00eennegurat \u00een care Suggie tr\u0103ie\u0219te zece ani cu foamea \u0219i frica-n ma\u021be \u0219i-n pantaloni. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Cartea, bazat\u0103 pe copil\u0103ria autorului, e o dureroas\u0103 lec\u021bie de devotament \u0219i ata\u0219ament fa\u021b\u0103 de o mam\u0103 deraiat\u0103, abuz\u00e2nd de alcool \u0219i al\u021bii de ea, b\u0103rba\u021bi care vin \u0219i pleac\u0103 violent, l\u0103s\u00e2ndu-i \u0219anturi ad\u00e2nci nu doar \u00een carnea de pe\/dintre pulpe, dar mai ales \u00een carnea sufletului. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Care nu se vindec\u0103, nu se repar\u0103 \u0219i nu se \u00eenlocuie\u0219te precum ciorapii rup\u021bi sau lenjeria intim\u0103 \u00eentinat\u0103. Shuggie e acolo mereu veghind, \u00eentinz\u00e2ndu-i, \u00een marea de alcool \u0219i propriile-i fluide umane, colacul de salvare \u0219i &#8230; g\u0103leata. De care se aga\u021b\u0103 tr\u0103g\u00e2ndu-l \u0219i pe el pu\u021bin c\u00e2te pu\u021bin, tr\u0103g\u00e2nd din el sev\u0103 proasp\u0103t\u0103. Dar e de ajuns?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Douglas Stuart, nu doar scriitor, ci \u0219i designer de mod\u0103, are 46 de ani \u0219i este la prima lui carte. O carte de debut scris\u0103 impecabil, cu ritm nebun din care nu ie\u0219i c\u00e2nd vrei tu, aliment\u00e2ndu-se din tr\u0103iri la limita vie\u021bii, r\u0103spl\u0103tit\u0103 (desi refuzat\u0103 la \u00eenceput de c\u00e2teva zeci de edituri) cu un premiu mare &#8211; Booker Prize 2020 &#8211; \u0219i nominaliz\u0103ri, finalist la alte premii, e o chestiune c\u00e2t se poate de exotic\u0103. \u0218i curajoas\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>La fel de curajoase \u0219i inspirate mi se par editarea ei \u00een colec\u021bia Anansi Contemporan, coordonat\u0103 de <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/bogdanalexandru.stanescu?__cft__[0]=AZWKuGPcc2XZhqJA5ihRDORcCrCze-acxWl0AFNgmDOQyjqYNe3rCW0sJ-Dj5qHOoDjRRZ1V3kmTtTmJRY1gnMoJQVdi88076F_Zjvqsf2Fat6MnK14u9KZUS2AAXQ3j75bGCHhs-0Fq2hJ6fq0KeED9_xftgyAV0ZkEoowsS1rhnw&amp;__tn__=-]K-R\">Bogdan-Alexandru St\u0103nescu<\/a>, \u0219i traducerea, bine-bine reu\u0219it\u0103, plin\u0103 de culoare a Mihaelei Ghi\u021b\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"1022\" src=\"https:\/\/www.dumitra.net\/blog\/wp-content\/fileStore\/2022\/07\/20220629_140131-01-01-1024x1022.jpeg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-13796\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.dumitra.net\/blog\/wp-content\/fileStore\/2022\/07\/20220629_140131-01-01-1024x1022.jpeg 1024w, https:\/\/www.dumitra.net\/blog\/wp-content\/fileStore\/2022\/07\/20220629_140131-01-01-300x300.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/www.dumitra.net\/blog\/wp-content\/fileStore\/2022\/07\/20220629_140131-01-01-150x150.jpeg 150w, https:\/\/www.dumitra.net\/blog\/wp-content\/fileStore\/2022\/07\/20220629_140131-01-01-768x766.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/www.dumitra.net\/blog\/wp-content\/fileStore\/2022\/07\/20220629_140131-01-01-600x599.jpeg 600w, https:\/\/www.dumitra.net\/blog\/wp-content\/fileStore\/2022\/07\/20220629_140131-01-01-1536x1533.jpeg 1536w, https:\/\/www.dumitra.net\/blog\/wp-content\/fileStore\/2022\/07\/20220629_140131-01-01-2048x2043.jpeg 2048w, https:\/\/www.dumitra.net\/blog\/wp-content\/fileStore\/2022\/07\/20220629_140131-01-01-80x80.jpeg 80w, https:\/\/www.dumitra.net\/blog\/wp-content\/fileStore\/2022\/07\/20220629_140131-01-01-320x320.jpeg 320w, https:\/\/www.dumitra.net\/blog\/wp-content\/fileStore\/2022\/07\/20220629_140131-01-01-1320x1317.jpeg 1320w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/scontent.fotp3-3.fna.fbcdn.net\/v\/t39.30808-6\/292069130_5227859963987816_2304844070202860952_n.jpg?_nc_cat=103&amp;ccb=1-7&amp;_nc_sid=730e14&amp;_nc_eui2=AeEghnRcsNlgeADZdh5mNZEHhsXK-GHKDLiGxcr4YcoMuFdRrfZwY0xY-_5EiRHfGTgMsYx4KhoSZbv87_zU_mEZ&amp;_nc_ohc=EvkYDQodvyMAX8pI7mh&amp;_nc_ht=scontent.fotp3-3.fna&amp;oh=00_AT9Jo79gaEFo09puGpWSSBdqSdX5dMMUWjeMc5MNVUwD8Q&amp;oe=62C83647\" alt=\"Ar putea fi o imagine cu 1 persoan\u0103 \u015fi carte\"\/><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ies t\u00e2rziu \u00een noapte \u0219i groggy din ring. N-a sl\u0103bit o clip\u0103 ritmul. I-am c\u0103utat \u0219i cele mai mici bre\u0219e. S\u0103 respir m\u0103car \u00eentre ele. S\u0103-mi v\u0103d de via\u021ba mea \u00eentre timp. Cu c\u00e2t&#46;&#46;&#46;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"ngg_post_thumbnail":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1413],"tags":[2166,2165,2168],"class_list":["post-13795","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-raftul-lui-radu","tag-cronica-de-carte-douglas-stuart-shaggie-bain","tag-shuggie-baine","tag-shuggie-baine-recenzie-in-romana"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dumitra.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13795","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dumitra.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dumitra.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dumitra.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dumitra.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=13795"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/www.dumitra.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13795\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":13802,"href":"https:\/\/www.dumitra.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13795\/revisions\/13802"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dumitra.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=13795"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dumitra.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=13795"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dumitra.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=13795"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}