{"id":13184,"date":"2022-02-19T07:27:31","date_gmt":"2022-02-19T07:27:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.dumitra.net\/blog\/?p=13184"},"modified":"2022-02-19T07:51:12","modified_gmt":"2022-02-19T07:51:12","slug":"micut-indreptar-de-bunute-practici-zuckerbergiene","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.dumitra.net\/blog\/?p=13184","title":{"rendered":"Micu\u021b \u00eendreptar de bunu\u021be practici zuckerbergiene"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

– C\u00e2nd cineva scrie o urare pe peretele t\u0103u, simpatic e s\u0103 r\u0103spunzi tot acolo sau m\u0103car s\u0103 ar\u0103\u021bi, printr-un like sau orice emoticon, c\u0103 ai v\u0103zut postarea. Dac\u0103 nu vrei s\u0103 r\u0103spunzi, n-ai chef, timp, nu-\u021bi lasa data de na\u0219tere vizibil\u0103, public\u0103. Ascunde-o din sectiunea \u201dDespre tine\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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– Dac\u0103 nu e\u0219ti Biden, nu te considera prea important sau prea ocupat s\u0103 r\u0103spunzi individual fiec\u0103rui mesaj sau comentariu. Dac\u0103 e\u0219ti prezent pe Facebook, \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 vrei s\u0103 fii v\u0103zut de al\u021bii cu ce ai tu mai bun. Din bun\u0103tatea ta ar putea face parte \u0219i s\u0103 NU scrii un mesaj general \u00een care s\u0103 le mul\u021bume\u0219ti tuturor, la gr\u0103mad\u0103, c\u0103 s-au g\u00e2ndit la tine. Fiec\u0103ruia \u00een parte adreseaz\u0103-i o mul\u021bumire. Cum tu te-ai bucurat c\u0103 cineva \u021bi-a scris, tot a\u0219a \u0219i cineva-ul acela se va bucura c\u0103 i-ai r\u0103spuns.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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– Nu posta doar emoticoane pe post de comentarii. Dac\u0103 n-ai chef s\u0103 scrii nimic, nu scrie. Emoticoanele nu \u021bin loc de vorbe, oric\u00e2t de mari sau sclipicioase ar fi. Dimpotriv\u0103, pot fi chiar deranjante vizual. Dac\u0103 e\u0219ti comod s\u0103 scrii dou\u0103 vorbe, nu le scrie. Sau le scrii mai t\u00e2rziu, c\u00e2nd ai mai mult timp. De vreme ce ai deschis FB, \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 ai ceva timp, nu-i a\u0219a?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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– Nu ar\u0103ta constant arogan\u021ba \u0219i frustrarea \u00een mesajele, comentariile pe care le scrii prietenilor t\u0103i de pe FB; asta spune ceva despre tine, nu despre cel c\u0103ruia \u00eei scrii. Dac\u0103 n-ai chef s\u0103-l vezi, d\u0103-i cu \u201dsnooze\u201d sau \u201dnu mai urm\u0103ri prietenia\u201d, dac\u0103 n-o face deja el.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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– Nu trimite cereri de prietenie unor oameni de care ai vrea s\u0103 fii v\u0103zut \u0219i, imediat ce \u00ee\u021bi este acceptat\u0103 cererea, s\u0103 le \u0219i trimi\u021bi invita\u021bie s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi aprecieze pagina de business sau ce alte activit\u0103\u021bi mai ai tu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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– Nu trimite cereri de prietenie unor oameni care ar putea fi importan\u021bi pentru businessul sau activitatea ta \u0219i apoi s\u0103 \u00eei la\u0219i doar pe ei s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi arate prin like, comentarii, c\u0103 te v\u0103d. Mai arat\u0103-le \u0219i tu lor, din c\u00e2nd \u00een c\u00e2nd, c\u0103 \u00eei vezi. Aminte\u0219te-\u021bi c\u0103 tu i-ai c\u0103utat, tu le-ai trimis cererea de prietenie. Nu ei. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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– Dac\u0103 cineva scrie despre tine, despre activitatea ta din pur\u0103 \u0219i simpl\u0103 dorin\u021b\u0103, mul\u021bume\u0219te. Nu considera c\u0103 \u021bi se cuvine. Soarele r\u0103sare pentru to\u021bi, nu doar pentru tine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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– Dac\u0103 citezi cuvintele cuiva, pune ghilimele \u0219i scrie autorul, d\u0103 sursa (site-ul, cartea, articolul, link-ul). Asta nu te face mai pu\u021bin de\u0219tept, interesant. Dimpotriv\u0103: arat\u0103 c\u00e2t e\u0219ti de deschis, tolerant \u0219i dornic s\u0103 \u00eenve\u021bi. \u00cen era Google, to\u021bi suntem \u0219i de\u0219tep\u021bi, \u0219i citi\u021bi, \u0219i cultiva\u021bi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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– Nu scrie prietenilor t\u0103i, mai ales celor apropia\u021bi, mesaje, comentarii de parc\u0103 ai b\u0103ga b\u0103\u021bul prin gard, doar ca s\u0103 asmu\u021bi c\u00e2inii. Asta nu te face nici original, nici simpatic. Dac\u0103 te-ai sastisit de ce vezi, renun\u021b\u0103 o vreme la social-media. Nu e obligatoriu s\u0103 fii aici. Planeta nu va pierde nimic. Luna tot va r\u0103s\u0103ri.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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– Social-media e despre interac\u021biunea cu ceilal\u021bi. Dac\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi place ce vezi la prietenii t\u0103i, arat\u0103-le-o cumva; asta \u00eei va ajuta \u0219i pe ei s\u0103-\u0219i ajusteze \u00een permanen\u021b\u0103 post\u0103rile, s\u0103-\u0219i \u00eembun\u0103t\u0103\u021beasc\u0103 stilul. Social-media nu se pred\u0103 la \u0219coala primar\u0103, e normal s\u0103 o facem dup\u0103 ureche sau inspir\u00eendu-ne unii de la al\u021bii, mai bine sau mai prost, sau fiind noi \u00een\u0219ine originali.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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– Dac\u0103 prietenii t\u0103i furnizeaz\u0103 informa\u021bii care \u00ee\u021bi sunt utile, de care te folose\u0219ti, simpatic ar fi s\u0103 le \u0219i mul\u021bume\u0219ti sau s\u0103 le ar\u0103\u021bi c\u0103 ai v\u0103zut. Nu-\u021bi cade rangul \u0219i nici nu-\u021bi \u0219tirbe\u0219te inteligen\u021ba. Dac\u0103 le-a \u00eemp\u0103rt\u0103\u0219it cu tine, asta nu \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 obligatoriu are un interes \u0219i te folose\u0219te fix pe tine ca s\u0103 \u0219i-l ating\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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– Nu scrie constant post\u0103ri generale \u0219i aluzive \u00een care s\u0103 penalizezi sau s\u0103 te r\u0103fuie\u0219ti anonim cu un prieten sau o idee (postare) care te-a deranjat. Social-media are \u0219i p\u0103r\u021bile lui nasoale \u0219i bune. Una fiind c\u0103 \u0219i tu, \u0219i el v\u0103 pute\u021bi exprima cu acelea\u0219i \u0219anse egale. Dac\u0103 ai cojones, scrie-i lui direct, d\u0103-i numele, eticheteaz\u0103-l. A\u0219a e b\u0103rb\u0103te\u0219te. Nu-i face pe al\u021bii s\u0103 \u00eenghit\u0103 frustr\u0103rile aluzive \u0219i s\u0103 te m\u00e2ng\u00e2ie pe cre\u0219tet drept compensa\u021bie. S-ar putea s\u0103 r\u0103m\u00e2n\u0103 s\u0103 te urm\u0103reasc\u0103 doar mama, so\u021bia \u0219i prietenii de bere.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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– Nu uita s\u0103 spui \u00eentotdeauna \u201dte rog\u201d, mai ales c\u00eend ceri ceva de la prietenii t\u0103i virtuali, \u0219i \u201dmul\u021bumesc\u201d. Nu e nimeni dator s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi furnizeze ceva, chit c\u0103 tu consideri c\u0103 el se folose\u0219te de tine, deci tu e\u0219ti \u00eendrept\u0103\u021bit s\u0103 ceri \u0219i el s\u0103 se execute imediat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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