{"id":12259,"date":"2021-04-03T06:52:38","date_gmt":"2021-04-03T06:52:38","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.dumitra.net\/blog\/?p=12259"},"modified":"2021-04-03T06:52:38","modified_gmt":"2021-04-03T06:52:38","slug":"seductie-cu-premeditare-a-la-yalom","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.dumitra.net\/blog\/?p=12259","title":{"rendered":"Seduc\u021bie cu premeditare a la Yalom"},"content":{"rendered":"
De\u0219i n-a fost tot timpul a\u0219a, de zilele mele, cel mai mult m\u0103 bucur c\u00e2nd primesc c\u0103r\u021bi. Prietenii mei \u0219tiu asta. \u00centr-un octombrie tare v\u0103ratic, m\u0103 v\u0103d cu C. la o cafea de s\u00e2mb\u0103t\u0103. \u00cenainte de asta, m\u0103 tr<\/div>\n

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age spre libr\u0103rie \u0219i-mi zice: \u201dHai, alege ce c\u0103r\u021bi vrei!\u201d. Treaba asta nu m\u0103 deruteaz\u0103 deloc, marea de c\u0103r\u021bi – vreau s\u0103 zic. \u0218i nici nu m\u0103 ar\u0103t indecis\u0103. M\u0103 las \u00een voia lor. \u0218tiu c\u0103 nu eu le aleg pe ele, c\u0103r\u021bile m\u0103 aleg pe mine. \u0218i, dup\u0103 ce m\u0103 aleg, \u00ee\u0219i las\u0103 cuvintele \u00een pielea mea ca ni\u0219te ulcera\u021bii. Care nu se (prea) vindec\u0103.<\/div>\n
M-a ales atunci \u201dMinciuni pe canapea\u201d a lui Irvin Yalom. Habar n-aveam cine este \u0219i nici n-am c\u0103utat pe loc referin\u021be despre el.<\/div>\n
Am deschis cartea la jum\u0103tate. M-a\u0219 fi a\u0219ezat pe jos, acolo, \u00een libr\u0103rie, s\u0103 continuu s\u0103 citesc. Am am\u00e2nat totu\u0219i momentul p\u00e2n\u0103 c\u00eend am ajuns acas\u0103, iar luni diminea\u021b\u0103 cartea z\u0103cea deja cu coperta 4 \u00een sus. Obosise \u0219i ea. F\u0103cuser\u0103m \u00eempreun\u0103 un sprint. Sincer\u0103, cu un umor pe mai multe game, bine scris\u0103, cu tempo aproape de roman poli\u021bist. E genul care-\u021bi las\u0103 copiii nem\u00e2nca\u021bi, pentru c\u0103 nu mai ai timp s\u0103 g\u0103te\u0219ti.<\/div>\n
Ce s\u0103 mai zic de aspirator???<\/div>\n
Urm\u0103toarea a fost, cum altfel, \u201dPl\u00e2nsul lui Nietzsche\u201d \u00een traducerea de cristal a Luanei Schidu. Greu am g\u0103sit-o. Am b\u0103tut vreo 3 libr\u0103rii. \u0218i, pentru c\u0103 m-a f\u0103cut s\u0103 pierd at\u00e2ta timp c\u0103ut\u00e2nd-o, am \u00eenghi\u021bit-o repejor \u0219i abia apoi am metabolizat-o. Ca un hamster.<\/div>\n
Iar la \u201dProblema Spinoza\u201d ajungi inevitabil, pentru c\u0103 deja nu prea mai ai sc\u0103pare.<\/div>\n
\u201dEfemeride\u201d le mi-au ajuns doar la cina de sear\u0103 \u0219i micul dejun foarte matinal. Sunt 10 povestiri care, vizual, curg ca o ap\u0103 limpede, \u00een timp ce picioarele mi-au fost imersate \u00een ulei \u00eencins (sau invers?). \u00cen perioada asta pandemic\u0103, poate mai mult ca niciodat\u0103, ne-am confruntat to\u021bi, mai de aproape sau mai de departe, cu iminen\u021ba\/posibilitatea acut\u0103 a mor\u021bii. Despre asta vorbe\u0219te, \u00een principal, Yalom cu pacien\u021bii s\u0103i \u00een cele 10 pove\u0219ti de psihoterapie. \u0218i mai vorbe\u0219te despre cum s\u0103 tr\u0103ie\u0219ti \u201daici \u0219i acum\u201d, despre cum s\u0103 ai o via\u021b\u0103 bun\u0103 f\u0103r\u0103 bruiajele dorin\u021bei de a fi avut un trecut mai bun, despre cum lipsa con\u0219tiin\u021bei de sine caut\u0103 s\u0103 fie umplut\u0103 cu stima de sine pe care ai putea-o ob\u021bine prin ochii altora.<\/div>\n
\u201dCele zece pove\u0219ti se doresc a fi surse de \u00eenv\u0103\u021bare, oferind lec\u021bii clare de psihoterapie care nu se reg\u0103sesc \u00een mod obi\u0219nuit \u00een programa contemporan\u0103.\u201d<\/div>\n
Acum, n-am s\u0103 pot re\u021bine doar pentru mine c\u0103, \u00een ciuda seduc\u021biei cu premeditare pe care o practic\u0103 Yalom \u00een c\u0103r\u021bile lui, \u00eentrev\u0103d o auto-aureolare a muncii de phihoterapeut practicate dincolo de v\u00e2rsta de 80 de ani. \u00cen definitiv, are \u0219i de ce. C\u00e2\u021bi au a\u0219a un palmares?<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

De\u0219i n-a fost tot timpul a\u0219a, de zilele mele, cel mai mult m\u0103 bucur c\u00e2nd primesc c\u0103r\u021bi. Prietenii mei \u0219tiu asta. \u00centr-un octombrie tare v\u0103ratic, m\u0103 v\u0103d cu C. la o cafea de s\u00e2mb\u0103t\u0103....<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"ngg_post_thumbnail":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1413],"tags":[1779,1777,1778],"class_list":["post-12259","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-raftul-lui-radu","tag-10-povesti-de-psihoterapie-yalom","tag-recenzie-efemeride-irvin-yalom","tag-traducere-luana-schidu-plansul-lui-nietzsche"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dumitra.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12259","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dumitra.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dumitra.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dumitra.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dumitra.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=12259"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.dumitra.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12259\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":12261,"href":"https:\/\/www.dumitra.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12259\/revisions\/12261"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dumitra.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=12259"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dumitra.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=12259"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dumitra.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=12259"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}