{"id":12247,"date":"2021-04-02T20:11:17","date_gmt":"2021-04-02T20:11:17","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.dumitra.net\/blog\/?p=12247"},"modified":"2021-04-02T20:11:45","modified_gmt":"2021-04-02T20:11:45","slug":"trebuie-sa-devii-cine-esti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.dumitra.net\/blog\/?p=12247","title":{"rendered":"\u201dTrebuie s\u0103 devii cine e\u0219ti\u201d"},"content":{"rendered":"
\"\"<\/a>\u201dTrebuie s\u0103 devii cine e\u0219ti.\u201d Pare un slogan tocit ca o st\u00e2nc\u0103 de mare,\"\"<\/a> subliniat cu markerul roz \u00eentr-o carte de dezvoltare personal\u0103. Dar nu. E din \u201dCopilul de nisip\u201d, romanul lui Tahar Ben Jelloun, scriitor marocan, c\u00e2\u0219tig\u0103tor de Goncourt \u00een 1987. \u0218i are mai mult miez \u0219i sev\u0103 dec\u00e2t v\u0103 pute\u021bi \u00eenchipui.<\/div>\n
\u201dTrebuie s\u0103 devii cine e\u0219ti.\u201d – iese din roman. Mi se rostogole\u0219te prin cap de c\u00e2teva zile (chiar \u0219i la coafor \"\ud83d\ude0a\"<\/span> ). \u00cemi intr\u0103 \u00een cutele min\u021bii.<\/div>\n
De ce \u0219i cine spune c\u0103 trebuie? \u0218i, apoi, cum \u0219tii cine e\u0219ti \u0219i cine\/cum s\u0103 devii?<\/div>\n
Ahmed (nume de b\u0103rbat) este a opta fat\u0103 (!!!) a unui cuplu islamic. S\u0103 dai na\u0219tere, \u00een Marocul anilor 50, unui \u0219ir de at\u00e2tea fete, reprezenta nu doar un e\u0219ec al semin\u021bei b\u0103rb\u0103te\u0219ti, dar \u0219i calea sigur\u0103 s\u0103 fii, dup\u0103 moarte, mo\u0219tenit de fra\u021bii t\u0103i, \u0219i nu de so\u021bie \u0219i fiice.<\/div>\n
Ahmed, \u00een complicitatea de morm\u00e2nt a moa\u0219ei, tat\u0103lui \u0219i mamei acestuia, este crescut ca b\u0103iat dup\u0103 toate legile islamice. Asta \u00eensemn\u00e2nd, desigur, mai mult dec\u00e2t ablu\u021biunile \u00een baia public\u0103 al\u0103turi de b\u0103rba\u021bi \u0219i cotloanele lor ascunse. \u00censemna, \u00een primul r\u00e2nd, mult mai multe drepturi dec\u00e2t ale femeilor, inclusiv dreptul de a prelua \u0219i conduce afacerile tat\u0103lui dup\u0103 moartea acestuia.<\/div>\n
Ahmed cre\u0219te, av\u00e2nd interpus \u00eentre el \u0219i familie, \u00eentre el \u0219i societate, un zid al t\u0103cerii, al izol\u0103rii, al acoperirii totale a corpului, a vocii.<\/div>\n
\u0218i a\u0219a cre\u0219te p\u00e2n\u0103 c\u00e2nd? Simplu. P\u00e2n\u0103 c\u00e2nd trebuie s\u0103 devin\u0103 cine este, de fapt.<\/div>\n
P\u00e2n\u0103 c\u00e2nd trupul de femeie \u00eencepe s\u0103 erup\u0103 ca un vulcan adormit. P\u00e2n\u0103 c\u00e2nd s\u00e2nii \u00eei \u00eenmuguresc \u0219i plesnesc sub p\u00e2nzele care au rostul nu doar s\u0103-i aplatizeze, ba chiar s\u0103-i introduc\u0103 \u00een torace, ca o cre\u0219tere invers\u0103. P\u00e2n\u0103 c\u00e2nd c\u00e2rpele din dulapul surorilor dispar mai repede dec\u00e2t de obicei pentru a se impregna de scurgerea femeiasc\u0103. P\u00e2n\u0103 c\u00e2nd pulsiunile sexuale \u00eencep s\u0103 b\u00e2ntuie nop\u021bile nedormite ale lui Ahmed.<\/div>\n
P\u00e2n\u0103 c\u00e2nd Ahmed \u00eencepe s\u0103 se caute \u0219i decide s\u0103-\u0219i p\u0103r\u0103seasc\u0103 familia pentru a-\u0219i reg\u0103si esen\u021ba.<\/div>\n
O g\u0103se\u0219te Ahmed singur? \u0218i cu ce pre\u021b? Povestea asta real\u0103 este istorisit\u0103 \u00eentr-o pia\u021b\u0103 a Marocului. \u0218i, pentru c\u0103 pove\u0219tile, \u00een primul r\u00e2nd, \u00eel elibereaz\u0103 pe cel care le spune, pas\u00e2nd ascult\u0103torului responsabilitatea unei posibile continu\u0103ri, al\u021bi povestitori preiau povestea \u0219i \u00eei caut\u0103 un sf\u00e2r\u0219it.<\/div>\n
Este frumoas\u0103 metafora por\u021bilor care se deschid \u0219i \u00eenchid \u00een func\u021bie de capitolele romanului.<\/div>\n
Este \u00eens\u0103 dureros c\u0103, dep\u0103\u0219ind grani\u021bele romanului, de multe ori \u00een via\u021b\u0103 adopt\u0103m (cu sau f\u0103r\u0103 dorin\u021ba noastr\u0103) ni\u0219te roluri, devenind purt\u0103tori p\u00e2n\u0103 \u00een intimitatea noastr\u0103. \u00cembr\u0103c\u0103m personaje sau \u00eencerc\u0103m s\u0103 \u00eenc\u0103pem \u00een ni\u0219te tipare pe care noi credem c\u0103 societatea le \u201dpre\u021buie\u0219te\u201d, gra\u021bie c\u0103rora credem c\u0103 se r\u0103zbe\u0219te mai u\u0219or. Ne-am deprins cu arta disimul\u0103rii \u0219i o exercit\u0103m chiar \u0219i \u00een cele mai apropiate rela\u021bii.<\/div>\n
Totu\u0219i, goliciunea trupului spune un adev\u0103r ca ziua \u0219i ca noaptea. Trupul gol nu minte; trupul gol tr\u0103deaz\u0103.<\/div>\n
Ce se \u00eent\u00eempl\u0103 cu Ahmed dup\u0103 ce devine o ciud\u0103\u021benie, jum\u0103tate femeie-jum\u0103tate b\u0103rbat, \u00eentr-o cu\u0219c\u0103 a unui circ? \u0218i \u00een ce stadiu de devenire \u00eel g\u0103se\u0219te sf\u00e2r\u0219itul prematur? Pentru c\u0103, \u201ds\u0103 semeni cu tine \u00eensu\u021bi nu \u00eenseamn\u0103 s\u0103 fii diferit?\u201d.<\/div>\n
Eu m-am eliberat de poveste, v\u0103 las vou\u0103 s\u0103 afla\u021bi restul\u2026.<\/div>\n
Ed. Nemira, 2020, traducere din francez\u0103 de Mihaela Stan.<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

\u201dTrebuie s\u0103 devii cine e\u0219ti.\u201d Pare un slogan tocit ca o st\u00e2nc\u0103 de mare, subliniat cu markerul roz \u00eentr-o carte de dezvoltare personal\u0103. Dar nu. E din \u201dCopilul de nisip\u201d, romanul lui Tahar Ben...<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"ngg_post_thumbnail":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1413],"tags":[1773,1771,1772],"class_list":["post-12247","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-raftul-lui-radu","tag-copilul-de-nisip-opinie","tag-recenzie-copilul-de-nisip-de-tahar-ben-jelloun","tag-trebuie-sa-devii-cine-esti"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dumitra.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12247","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dumitra.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dumitra.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dumitra.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dumitra.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=12247"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.dumitra.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12247\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":12252,"href":"https:\/\/www.dumitra.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12247\/revisions\/12252"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dumitra.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=12247"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dumitra.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=12247"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dumitra.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=12247"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}